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Two Lives Told in One Day SnapShots

Look at today’s date and take a snapshot of your life at it stands today. Not go back and do the same for every year of your life on this exact day. What do you get? Is it a complete telling of your life? Does the story that comes together tell enough of the important details?

Conducting the same exercise I am left with significant gaps in my life story. One day a year is not enough to tell the story. Or is it?

David Nicholls, in One Day, explains the twists and turns of Dexter Mayhew and Emma Morley’s lives. He illustrates the mundane and the extraordinary events that make up any lifetime. And he does it with one day a year.

On July 15th, just as Dexter and Emma are about to graduate university, they officially meet and enjoy one night of fun and love. Although there is a connection between them, Dexter has plans for worldly adventure and Emma has dreams of her own success so they part ways. Over the years, as told through phone calls, letters and live interactions, Emma and Dexter keep in touch.

It has become increasingly common to see the narrator in a novel change from one character to another throughout the story. Sometimes this method seems like the easiest, or even laziest, way to accomplish an end. But some authors, such as Nicholls, are able to use the different voices to illustrate depth that couldn’t come from just once voice.

Throughout One Day Dexter is easy to hate and Emma, although more sympathetic, is maddeningly accommodating of Dexter. While the reader may never overcome these feelings, empathy for each character is created when the story is told in their own words. During on stage of their friendship, Emma is dedicated to Dexter and regularly sends him long letters and books that are carefully selected to augment his phase of life. In return, Dexter sporadically sends postcards with no more than a few words on them. The reader knows from Dexter, though, that while drunk he is penning pages long letters to Emma that he never has the courage to send.

Because each chapter in One Day represents only one day, the novel is easy to read and easy to put down and pick back up again without losing your place. There are phases in both Dexter and Emma’s life that are incredibly frustrating to read about but they’re too likeable to stop reading about them.

But, when finishing down One Day, I’m curious if the reader is left thinking about either Dexter or Emma or if, as I was, they are too busy reflecting on how representative one day a year of their own life could be.

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Sometimes Things Just Work Out

I am supposed to be out of town right now. But things with scheduling blew up so I am still in town and loving it because the garden is going crazy!

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Travel Day Number 3

Warning: This is a rambling post, and while I write a lot of rambling posts, this one might take the cake. It’s what happens when you blog while bored.

I have five days of travel this week and 3 or 4 next week. I work with people who travel all of the time. When I grew up my dad travelled all of the time. I couldn’t do it.

I think some people are born to travel. Despite a love of traveling for pleasure, traveling for work is a whole other ball game. For my first overnight I packed my thing into a small duffle bag. I was proud. Then I met up with my co-worker who had luggage the size of a laptop bag. What??? For this trip I didn’t screw around. I still have my things in a smaller suitcase but I am ready for all types of scenarios.

What’s ironic is that I can travel around the world, quite literally, with nothing more than a backpack. I remember when Wonder Boy and I once visited my friend Delicious in DC he saw my luggage and started laughing. Delicious and I spent three weeks traveling around Europe with only a few days worth of clothes on us. We washed underwear in sinks, visited laundromats. We weren’t above wearing dirty clothes. And then I rolled into DC for a long weekend with enough luggage to last about 3 weeks.

As I jammed my suitcase full of stuff last night I tried to reconcile the differences in my packing styles. I decided it all came down to one thing: flip-flops. Initially I thought it had to do with if I wanted to impress people or not. Because if you want to impress people who pack different things for all sorts of occasions, right? But really, the things I packed for this trip? Neither impressive or the type of clothing I’d like to be associated with. Business dress… blech. (As I type this I am in my conference outfit of company polo and dress slacks but also sporting Chucks, so there is still some room for creative expression.) Now DC was a trip where I wanted to look cute so maybe it’s sometimes about wanting to impress people.

The trips I like, the trips I can pack well for, are ones where flip-flips are appropriate for all occasions. Flip flops are fabulous. They let your toes enjoy the warm weather, they don’t make your feet sweat, they can look great with a dress outfit and just as good with a T-shirt and shorts. I used to use flip flops as part of my tag-line when I did freelance writing for Time Warner (see the bottom of the story).

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Floating Away

After weeks of rain and an incredibly rainy trip to Tennessee, I spot this very appropriate statue in downtown Knoxville.

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Salad

Mushrooms have sprouted all over our backyard as a result of all of the rain over the past weeks. I won’t do it, because Wonder Boy would put his foot down, but I am tempted to pick all of these suckers and make myself a salad!

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