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Fighting and Forgiveness

I fight dirty. Ask my siblings and they’ll regale you with stories from my youth where I hit them, yelled at them and was generally pretty mean. Usually I had quite a bit of help, from said siblings, to achieve my angry state, but nonetheless, I wasn’t always nice.One of the best things I’ve learned from marriage is how to forgive and how to ask for forgiveness. I know I still have a mean streak in me, but I try to control it. When I can’t, I walk away from the situation so that I’m not talking to people while in an angry place. Specifically with Wonder Boy.

At first, this act of walking away was confusing to Wonder Boy, who likes to talk through things. I think he gets it now, though. I want to process my feelings on my own first. Then I can talk. If I don’t process things, then the words that come out of my mouth… Well, they don’t necessarily represent anything I really feel and they probably aren’t all that nice.

I’ve come to this point because 1) I don’t want to screw up a good thing and 2) I don’t think hitting Wonder Boy with a hairbrush would be very acceptable. (Refer to those stories from my siblings…)

I recently read The Mill River Redemption, by Darcie Chan, and while I struggled with much of the book (basically, the entire premise and then the conclusion, so…), I do think it offers a good representation of what happens when you don’t forgive someone or when you fight dirty. It was one instance where I was pretty grateful not to relate to anything the characters were experiencing.

Forgiveness.

This post was inspired by the novel The Mill River Redemption by Darcie Chan, about two estranged sisters who are forced to work together in order to uncover the hidden inheritance by their mother. Join From Left to Write on December 2nd as we discuss The Mill River Redemption and enter to win a copy of the novel. As a member, I received a copy of the book for review purposes.

 

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Mother Nature At Her Best in Nepal: The Himalayas, Waterfalls and Rivers, Rhinoceroses, Monkeys and Roosters

I returned from a trip to Nepal last month and when I went back to work I had people asking me, “What was your favorite part?” There are some vacations where this is so easy to answer. With Nepal, it was a sort of visual all-you-can-eat buffet of Mother Nature’s greatest work and it’s been hard for me to point to just one thing and say, “That! That was the best!” There are certainly parts I enjoyed more than others, but when I try to articulate them, they sound so lame. So my answer is: Everything I got to see in Nepal. That was my favorite.Over the course of twelve days in Nepal, we visited six different cities. Somehow, we managed to have a good mix of urban and nature, with a little bit of small-town scattered throughout. We saw the highest mountain in the world, the first national park in Nepal, the birthplace of Buddha with structures dating back to 623 BC and lots and lots of animals, which I always love. We were able to wander through small towns, survive the busy streets of Kathmandu and challenge my asthma diagnosis with more altitude changes than I ever expected. (Those portions of the trip were heavily sponsored by Prednisone.)

Baby Monkey Near the Pashupatinath Temple
We spotted this baby monkey near the Pashupatinath Temple. There’s a whole series of photos and his facial expressions are great.
Pink Powder Puff Tree Flower at the Green Park Chitwan.
There was a Pink Powder Puff Tree growing on the grounds of our hotel in Chitwan. The flowers are gorgeous.
In Chitwan at some animal preserve, I got to pet a baby rhinoceros!
In Chitwan at an animal preserve, I got to pet a baby rhinoceros! When you would pet him, he’d let out this deep sigh and his ears would flick back and forth, which is why they’re blurry in the photo.
River in Nepal.
Just your standard roadside beauty in Nepal!
View From the World Peace Pagoda in Pokhara.
This was the view out the front door at the World Peace Pagoda in Pokhara.
Hang Gliders in Pokhara.
These crazy people jump off the Himalayas to go hang gliding!
Phewa Lake in Pokhara.
Once it stopped raining and we finally got to see it, Phewa Lake in Pokhara was stunning.
Rooster at Swayambhunath, also known as the Monkey Temple.
I like farm animals as much as exotic and this rooster was ridiculous, strutting around Swayambhunath, also known as the Monkey Temple.
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A Little Bit of Everything

My Weeks in BooksI’m playing a little bit of catch-up on the books I have been reading and it’s hard to look at the collection and come up with any one theme that ties everything together…

The outlier, really, is Devil in the Grove by Gilbert King. I don’t read tons of non-fiction, but I do enjoy learning more about the Civil Rights Movements in the United States and becoming better informed about African American history. When you look at the major players from he Civil Rights era, Thurgood Marshall ranks at the top. When Marshall argued, and won, the Brown versus the Board of Education case in 1954 to the Supreme Court, it overturned Plessy versus Ferguson from 1896, which established the concept of separate but equal. It was an enormous moment for our country. In Devil in the Grove, King helps illustrate that the win was many, many years in the making.

Devil in the Grove focuses on a murder and subsequent arrests, and murders, in Florida. The case, with any twists and turns, is interesting. What was more compelling for me, though, was to learn about Marshall and his approach to justice. He played a long-game. Many times over he went into cases knowing he would lose them but trying to help set precedent for future cases. Trial by trial, he built up to ending the concept of separate but equal. Given the circumstances in which he was working, it’s pretty remarkable that he could maintain that focus.

I wouldn’t gift this book to many people I know. At times it is dry and it is packed full of detail. I passed it on to my father, though, and he was immediately hooked. If you like history and biographies, and especially if you’d like to fill in some gaps in your understanding of contemporary American history, I recommend Devil in the Grove.

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When Zachary Beaver Came to Town by Kimberly Willis Holt is a book I received for free from LibraryThing as part of a celebration of the fifteenth anniversary of the book’s publication. I picked it from my stack of books as something to read because I wanted something very light. The back-of-the-book summary included, “Fatty, fatty, two by four. Can’t get through the kitchen door,” which is mean but pretty much foretold what I could expect from the book. It’s not politically correct. It’s cute. It’s aimed at a very young audience. It’s listed at being for kids ages 10 to 14, which I feel is old given the storyline. But I wanted light and I got light.

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I enjoyed The Giver and was thrilled when I learned it had three companion novels. I’ve only read the first of those, Gathering Blue by Lois Lowry.  I was expecting a story that continued the adventure from The Giver so it took me a bit of time to understand what was happening – that Gathering Blue is it’s own, standalone story. (Or, at least, I think it is!) It’s a modern day parable that reminds me of the Narnia Chronicles. The books aren’t anything alike, but do try to convey lessons.  Lowry isn’t heavy-handed in religious references like C.S.Lewis was, but there is still a sense of right versus wrong, accompanied by magic. I’m thrilled knowing the next two books are sitting near by bed but am trying to limit how fast I read all of the books. Soon, though!

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Some reviews of The Magicians by Lev Grossman talk about the book ripping off, or failing to rise to the greatness of, the Harry Potter books. Having not read those (I know … no lectures, please), I was impressed with how Grossman paid homage to his predecessors. The Lord of the Rings and Narnia Chronicles seemed well-referenced and revered. I spent so much time reading about Narnia and loved Tolkien’s novels when I was younger that reading The Magicians was like visiting somewhere known and comfortable.

I enjoyed it so much and am thrilled it’s part of a trilogy so I can read more about magic and adventures in the land of Fillory.

Devil in the Grove; When Zachary Beaver Came to Town; Gathering Blue; and The Magicians.
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A Lesson In Stepping Out

While we were in Nepal, Wonder Boy, Frankenstein, Outside and I all took a chartered plane ride past Mount Everest. We had figured that this trip would be the closest we would ever get to the Himalayas and that none of use was likely to ever hike to Mount Everest. But a plane ride? Well within all of our skill sets.We woke up early so we could be flying at first light. I had seen photos from a friend’s trip and she had gone on a similar flight. Based on her photos, I was excited for the photography opportunities. I had my camera ready to go!

When we got on the plane, I was disappointed to see that my window’s view was partially blocked by the plane’s wing. But with careful careening of my neck, I could still get a wing-free picture. In between snapping shots, I tried to take in the view. To absorb everything I was seeing. But just like the window was blocked, my mental state was partially blocked by my singular focus on getting some pictures.

I’ve been going through my pictures from the trip and have learned a valuable lesson. While I was busy trying to take good photographs, I should have been more focused on the great view. Because you know what? My raw photos aren’t good. They are streaked and blurred by whatever was on my plane window. The plane’s wing makes many appearances.

Heavily edited in Photoshop, I have some that look okay. But I’m not sure any of my handful of photos match in beauty, even close, what I know I saw.

A view of the Himalayas, as seen from a flight by Mount Everest.

That leads me wondering if I got my money’s worth. Or at least everything I could have from the experience. I’m not sure. If I didn’t, though, it’s my fault. The flight wasn’t about what I could see through my viewfinder. It was what I could take in and embrace. That flight was about seeing individual homes in remote areas of the Himalayas. It was about getting as close to Mount Everest as I’ll ever be. It was about being in awe, and a little incredulous, of anyone willing to climb those mountaintops. It was about seeing Mother Nature in one of her finest acts.

That flight was about a singular experience. I regret that I wasn’t able to step out from behind my camera for a while longer and enjoy it more.

That’s a relatively inexpensive lesson for me to learn, in the grand scheme of things. The same thing applies to me hiding behind my phone screen being “social” or sitting behind a computer screen “interacting” with people. Not everything has to be captured and documented. Not everything needs proof. The experience might be so much better than any of that and all the proof I need is stored in my head.

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Peculiar and Fabulous

I’ve been intending to write a review of Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children and the follow-up, Hollow City, for some time now. I enjoyed the books so much but I don’t know how to adequately describe them.I enjoyed the stories in part because they were not at all what I was expecting. Even the genre was different than I had anticipated. I’m fascinated by how the author, Ransom Riggs, used old photography throughout the books. I couldn’t help but wonder what came first – the images or the stories. I hope it was the images because it makes his creative process so much more unique to me!I think I could make some attempt here to describe to you what Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children and Hollow City are about. Or, I could do you a bigger favor and just instruct you to go read the books. Learn nothing about them beforehand. Dive headfirst into the story and be prepared to be transported to a wonderfully peculiar place.

Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children and Hollow City by Ransom Riggs.
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