The feminist in me knows it’s wrong, but I like when people honk at me while they drive by or give me a hollah from their window. Once, while running, someone yelled out to me, “Girl, whatever you doin’, it’s workin’!” and it motivated me to run an extra mile! I take it as nothing more than meaningless affirmation and I love it.

Two days ago I got honked at while I walked to my car. Now, I know it’s prejudicial, but I am not sure I should take this particular man’s honk as a compliment. I have found a picture online of a man that is comparable in appearance to the man who honked at me.

Would you take this man honking at you as a compliment? (My guy had a shirt on…)