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Thankful for Fast Weeks and Fridays

I know it’s a cliché to be so excited that its Friday, but I am. I’m equally excited that this week has gone by quickly so I can start enjoying my weekend.

Life goes by so fast and I don’t want to be one of those people who only lives for weekends, but after a busy, stressful week, weekends are nice. I am hoping I can work some relaxation into this weekend. For me that means doing nothing. Maybe I read a bit or watch awful movies on TV but nothing productive is accomplished. It’s gluttonous and fabulous.

Tonight I’m heading out with some of my girlfriends for drinks to celebrate two birthdays. Tomorrow I am going to a charity gala and Sunday starts the Thanksgiving marathon – the first of four family meals. Yikes, right?! But I think it can all be done with a little downtime thrown in.

Throughout the weekend I will be spending time with friends, family and Wonder Boy, so I think this Friday is a cause for celebration and anticipation of fun times to come.

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Being Thankful During the Holidays

Pretty soon starts what is pretty much the most stressful time of year for me. For lots of people. I’m trying very hard to prepare myself for the holiday madness. I have lots of my Christmas gifts purchased and all of those are wrapped and in my attic. (I love the wrapping part so that wasn’t actually preparing for anything – it was a treat!) I have already started with mental mantras. “It’s going to be okay.” “Things won’t drive you nuts.” “You will be calm.” We’ll see.

So I have a new thing I thought I would try. During the holidays I’m going to try for a thing a day I am thankful for, knowing I’ll miss a few days during the rush of events.

Today I want to state that I am thankful that I am thankful for my family. In a few weeks when I am running from one family event to another, I’ll forget that but it’s true. Yesterday my little sister sent out a request to all three of her siblings and our parents asking of anyone could spare a car for while hers was being repaired. ALL of us replied we could help her. It was a pretty big inconvenience for everyone but we were will to do it.

I was stunned. She was, too. I spoke with her later in the day and she said how overwhelmed she was by the kindness. While I might not be the recipient of everyone’s offers to help, I am happy to be part of a family that’s there for each other. It’s nice to know you have people backing you up.

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America I Am, America We All Are

I had the pleasure of visiting the America I Am exhibit yesterday at the Cincinnati Museum Center. The exhibit highlights the integral role African Americans play in the history of America. Their history is our history. And yet, there is so much of that history that none of us knows.

As Wonder Boy and I left the exhibit we both reflected on the gaping hole in our education. I remember reading Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison and being 100% pissed off. Not because the themes of the book were disturbing or that I disagreed with them. The book was wonderful. I was pissed off because no English teacher in high school or college had introduced me to this book. This piece of important American literature.

It piqued this curiosity in me, made me wonder, “What other parts of literature, history, art, law have been completely ignored in my studies?” Turns out there was quite a bit.

I am a nerd (I know it’s sometimes hard to tell) and so I actively went in pursuit to fill the voids in what I had been taught. I took college courses in the African American Studies program at Ohio University and have bookshelves of books at home to prove it. I know of few people who have done the same. Worse, very few people have the opportunity to do the same in any formal setting or with any guidance.

I think Wonder Boy got the same slap in the face at the exhibit that I had when reading Invisible Man. He isn’t pissed off but on the car ride home several of his comments started off with, “Did you know…?” or “I never realized that…” I asked if he wanted me to recommend him one of my college books and he said, “I’d like to read an overview of the history of African Americans.”

In truth, that comments means America I Am accomplished its goal, I think, with one person. It made them think, made them curious and sent them in search of more information. But his comments also illustrate how massive the omissions from our academic studies are when people don’t know basic history of a race that makes up nearly 15% of our population.

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Two-Wheeled Fun

This weekend I took my first real moped ride. I waited until everything was legal: insurance and license plate in place. I have a biker’s jacket that protects about as much of me as any jacket can and a very astronaut-ish helmet.

The main barrier to my successful ride was nerves. I went out to get the bike set up and started and my hands were trembling a little. I kept reassuring myself that the fear was natural, healthy and something I should try to maintain so I could be safe. I guess that worked enough to get me out on the street. After a couple false starts, I headed down our side street and up a hill where I proceeded to stall. In front of a group of guys. Causing me to feel about 20-years-old and very mortified. I pushed the bike the rest of the way up the hill and got it started, thank gawd.

From there – smooth sailing! I rode around a few side streets and successfully up some hills. I rode in traffic and through intersections, even going so far as to change lanes. I know, I’m a daredevil.

All told I was probably riding for 30 to 40 minutes but it went by so fast. When I got home and off the bike my heart was racing, as if I had just gotten off a roller coaster. And I wanted to get riding again and cannot wait until I do!


This photo is obviously not from this weekend. I’m too new to be trying to get self-portaits!
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Edie Harper, My New Housemate

I have long had a slight obsession with Charley Harper. His art is magnificent and playful and I love how it looks simple at first glance but incredibly intricate upon further examination. It’s unfortunate for me that I live in the city where he went to art school and then later worked and raised a family. His artwork is everywhere. For obsessing over and, worse, for sale.

I am by no means an art collector. I do love modern art and attempt to have quality pieces in my home but I know I have never dropped a lot of money on anything. (Note I’m not defining “a lot” here.) I am lucky in that Wonder Boy and I have very common tastes in artwork. It makes travelling to any city where a museum is on the itinerary easier. And it makes it easier when we go shopping.

Thus far we own two Charley Harpers, both featuring raccoons: Racc an Ruin and Raccrobat. They are displayed proudly in our front room along with Told Oldham’s “Charley Harper: An Illustrated Life.” We also own Harper Harper Harper, a print that I would identify more as a poster and it is signed by Charley Harper, Edie Harper and Brett Harper. When I purchases that I was only vaguely familiar with Edie and Brett. I knew Brett had written an introduction for Oldham’s book and I had seen some of Edie’s work at the Cincinnati Art Museum.

In 2007 the Cincinnati Art Museum had a wonderful exhibit with a broad sampling of Charley’s and Edie’s works. I think they assumed that Charley would be the big draw for everyone. I know he was for me, though he certainly wasn’t my take away from the exhibit. I walked into the gallery and was dumfounded by how great Edie’s artwork was. When I started reading dates for her pieces, I realized that she was creating some of her artwork in a style I associate with Charley before he was.

A little crush was born.

And now guess what??? I own three Edie Harpers!!! Okay, both Wonder Boy and I own them, but that’s not what’s important. There will be three pieces of art created by Edie Harper hanging in my home!

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